“Infidelity in marriage is one of the most destructive things that can happen.”
You’re likely here because you’ve experienced one of the most difficult and damaging blows that a couple will ever experience- infidelity in marriage.
Whether you’re the one who’s been unfaithful or you’re the spouse who was cheated on, I’m sure you are in a great deal of pain right now.
Although much of this site is written to a woman who has been unfaithful, most of the information will be relevant to unfaithful husbands as well. There is a huge need for information geared for the unfaithful wife, and that is where my own personal experience is, so that is why I speak to unfaithful women mostly.
However, infidelity in marriage crosses gender lines and both gender’s are having an affair at an increasing rate.
I hope you will take some time to look around here at the various articles, information and resources to help you on your journey to find healing for your own pain, plus and hope and tools to heal and restore your marriage too.
Infidelity in marriage will cause emotions to be raw for a while, as you sort through the many emotions and decisions to make, take time to read, journal, get good counsel and pray.
The decisions you make now will affect the rest of your life,
so don’t make them lightly.
For more information and steps of what to do next if you are the unfaithful spouse, click here.
For help on what to do, and not do, now as the betrayed husband, click here.
The next thing I’d suggest is to read through the various stages of an affair to determine where you are in the process, and how to get past that particular stage and move on to healing:
Stage 1-before an affair has begun, warning signs you are heading into an affair, is here.
Stage 2- in the middle of an affair and how affairs begin, here.
Stage 3-breaking free of an affair and how to do this effectively.
Stage 4-Rebuilding the marriage. All contact with the affair partner has ended and this is the stage of rebuilding your marriage, and how to begin that process.
I would also suggest you read, and print out, my 20 steps to healing your marriage after an affair.
You can read more of my story, here.
Or you can read more about our marriage story, here.
Feel free to contact me with your comments.
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