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After My Affair

“Hope & healing for women who were unfaithful”

Beautiful Woman,

You don’t have to struggle alone any longer, searching for help as the unfaithful wife. Learn how to heal and restore your life after your affair.

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Meet Debbie

Hey there, I’m so glad you stopped by.

After going through the devastating pain of my own infidelity
13 years ago, our marriage was eventually healed and restored.

Now, I coach other women on how to end their affair,
and find hope, healing and restoration…
For themselves and their marriages.

You’re so welcome here and you belong.

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Client Testimonials

Gratitude from a betrayed husband, reader of the blog

"I wanted to reach out to you and say that your www.aftermyaffair.com website and wealth of information just saved our 34 year marriage. I really had reached the end of what I could emotionally take anymore.  Then I found your website.  Spent hours reading it.  Wow, it really made sense.  Almost like you wrote about us.  I shared it with my wife,  and it appeared as though the fog had lifted. Thank you so much for the reboot, the restart, the beginning of our healing.  You really did save our marriage."

-Vincent S. (reader of website; wife now in Debbie's recovery group)

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-Vincent S. (reader of website; wife now in Debbie's recovery group)

"I wanted to reach out to you and say that your www.aftermyaffair.com website and wealth of information just saved our 34 year marriage. I really had reached the end of what I could emotionally take anymore.  Then I found your website.  Spent hours reading it.  Wow, it really made sense.  Almost like you wrote about us.  I shared it with my wife,  and it appeared as though the fog had lifted. Thank you so much for the reboot, the restart, the beginning of our healing.  You really did save our marriage."

Joining ReBloom was one of the smartest things that I have done for my recovery.

"The ReBloom membership community has served as a huge part of my healing and recovery since I ended my affair. These women all share the same goal of remaining “no contact” with their ex-affair partner and finding healing for themselves, their husbands and their marriages. Debbie Rose is not just a figurehead; she is a real person who is in regular contact with us, knows our struggles and walks alongside us in our journey. Joining ReBloom was one of the smartest things that I have done as part of my journey towards personal and marital healing."  

Michelle T. (Canada)

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Michelle T. (Canada)

"The ReBloom membership community has served as a huge part of my healing and recovery since I ended my affair. These women all share the same goal of remaining “no contact” with their ex-affair partner and finding healing for themselves, their husbands and their marriages. Debbie Rose is not just a figurehead; she is a real person who is in regular contact with us, knows our struggles and walks alongside us in our journey. Joining ReBloom was one of the smartest things that I have done as part of my journey towards personal and marital healing."  

Taking Debbie’s ‘End Your Affair Course’ provided tools to resist contact.

“Debbie's End Your Affair online course provided tools to help me resist contacting my ex-affair partner. I was able to understand why it was so hard to "just stop" relying on willpower. I no longer felt like I needed to deal with my feelings in isolation. Debbie and the others provided great advice and support. I could share without judgement whenever I felt comfortable. This program has renewed my spirit. I am confident I can get over my affair and become the woman I want to be.”

-Jess H. (Boston)

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-Jess H. (Boston)

“Debbie's End Your Affair online course provided tools to help me resist contacting my ex-affair partner. I was able to understand why it was so hard to "just stop" relying on willpower. I no longer felt like I needed to deal with my feelings in isolation. Debbie and the others provided great advice and support. I could share without judgement whenever I felt comfortable. This program has renewed my spirit. I am confident I can get over my affair and become the woman I want to be.”

“The tools Debbie gives are enough to lead you in the direction of ending your affair.”

“I am blown away by the amount of support and information this course has given me! I never imagined having these resources to help me along in my affair recovery and without it this journey would be much more difficult. I feel confident in saying the tools Debbie gives are enough to lead you in the direction of ending your affair, as long as you’re committed to staying the course and putting in the work. I am grateful for the information, the instruction, the worksheets, the community support, the tough love, etc."

-Samantha F. (Pennsylvania)

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2020-09-10T14:34:02-06:00

-Samantha F. (Pennsylvania)

“I am blown away by the amount of support and information this course has given me! I never imagined having these resources to help me along in my affair recovery and without it this journey would be much more difficult. I feel confident in saying the tools Debbie gives are enough to lead you in the direction of ending your affair, as long as you’re committed to staying the course and putting in the work. I am grateful for the information, the instruction, the worksheets, the community support, the tough love, etc."

Debbie’s course was a gift from God at just the right time in my life.

“When I started this course I wasn't even sure I wanted to end my affair but my life was an out-of-control mess. Debbie's course was a gift from God at just the right time in my life. Debbie is such a beautiful person who really loves and cares about helping other women. She is so real; her "teaching" style is much more like talking to a dear friend than sitting in a class. Without her support and encouragement, I wouldn't have been able to maintain no contact and end my affair for good.”

-Amber S. (Arizona)

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2020-09-10T15:35:53-06:00

-Amber S. (Arizona)

“When I started this course I wasn't even sure I wanted to end my affair but my life was an out-of-control mess. Debbie's course was a gift from God at just the right time in my life. Debbie is such a beautiful person who really loves and cares about helping other women. She is so real; her "teaching" style is much more like talking to a dear friend than sitting in a class. Without her support and encouragement, I wouldn't have been able to maintain no contact and end my affair for good.”
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