how to deal with triggers and withdrawal

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how to deal with triggers and withdrawal as unfaithful wife after affair

margaret mendolla says
December 25, 2020 at 8:25 pm
Well I’am the wife… My husbend was the who cheated. Now it’s has been year’s… But because I married for life.. People don’t take being MARRIED as a life LONG cometment I will never recover…
Debbie Rose says
December 29, 2020 at 1:13 pm
I’m so sorry you’re in this terrible situation Margaret. I hear what you’re saying about marrying for life,
but remember, you always have choices. The bible speaks about adultery as one reason to divorce, but still- I believe
that’s not God’s first choice for couples. Many marriages can be restored but it takes commitment to it for both spouses…
If your husband hasn’t ended his affair- he’s showing you he’s not committed to it. How long does a spouse hold on and wait
for them to snap out of it? That’s a very personal decision but just remember- it’s the nature of humans to not change if no
reason to change has been given to them. In other words, why would he end his affair, or his marriage, if he’s got everything he
wants with both? It’s only when a clear boundary is set, for what you will not tolerate anymore, will he possibly end his affair.
Like an addict, an unfaithful spouse needs to hit their “bottom” too.
I wish you all the best.

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