Welcome friend, I’m so very glad you’re here!
Hi, I’m Debbie. I’m the founder of this site ‘After My Affair’.
Yea, the name kinda gives it away.
I’m well acquainted with failure;
but equally grateful for God’s grace & forgiveness.
I know what a marriage on the brink feels like,
and one that’s beautifully restored.
The second one is way better…
Can you relate?
- Are you a woman, even a Christian woman, who had an affair and now feel like you’ve lost yourself?
- Do you feel all alone- suffering through this trial in shame?
- Do you wonder if you’ll ever be able to get free of your past, and keep repeating the same cycles?
- Are you losing hope that your marriage can survive this?
- Do you long to know God more, but wonder how He can ever forgive you for this?
I really do understand this battle you’re in. I’ve felt every one of those things myself.
Yet, this site isn’t really about me.
My story is just meant to encourage you, and give you hope that there is a better life for you.
Because this site exists for you, my friend.
Shame and guilt doesn’t have to keep you suffering alone anymore.
There is help and support for you.
I wanted to create a way to help women who were the unfaithful spouse, just as I was once.
Yes, It’s more common to hear things written just for the unfaithful husband, and not the unfaithful WIFE.
So that’s what this site is here for.
I wanted to find a way to reach all the women who have had an affair, (and the numbers are growing),
but are looking for information written just for them.
If you’re here as the betrayed husband, my husband also understands what you are going through,
which is why I have a whole section of posts devoted to you, that I add to frequently.
Support and help for women who were unfaithful.
1. Join our private Community of (recovering Unfaithful) Women supporting each other on Facebook.
This is where you’ll find me, and many other kind hearted women in recovery from their own affairs.
It’s a growing group of women, seeking ways to heal our souls,
and our marriages, and learn to live a life of meaning and purpose.
(We’d love to have you join our facebook group- ‘AMA Women.‘
We purposely don’t say ‘Affair’ or infidelity in the description anywhere.
You can request to join privately here today- please answers the questions to validate first).
Please note* This is just for the unfaithful wife who wants to make the changes necessary to come out
of their affair, even if you don’t know how and need support.
2. Join our brand new membership site for women
in the next stage of their affair recovery! COMING SOON!
We’re opening our brand new private membership site for women who already
ended their affair, and have no desire to go back, but you still need connection & support
from other women who’ve been there. Me, and my founding members, are SO excited!
Our focus is on community, connection and supporting with each other,
with a separate facebook group, monthly course masterclasses with videos & worksheet pdf’s
centered around a specific topic (to help in your personal healing, faith and restoring your marriage),
and monthly zoom support video and phone calls, Q&A’s & many other features to as it grows.
If you’d like to be put on the waiting list to become part of this wonderful membership community-
then click here to get on the waiting list and be notified when we open the doors in early 2020
Did you read my note to you and more blog posts here?
If you want to know more about our marriage story, you can go here.
If you’re looking for information about restoring your marriage, click here.
“Debbie appreciates hearing from you, but due to the amount of e-mails Debbie receives she’s not able to personally respond to every inquiry,
she currently tries to be most active responding to questions in her private Facebook group & membership site community”.