Is there hope and healing after infidelity? Is having hope naive? For just a second today, I was wondering if I was being naive to offer hope to you, that a marriage can survive an affair. Notice I said Just. A. Second. Because what I know to be true is that hope is the one thing that will keep…
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How do you forgive yourself after an affair?
How do you ‘forgive yourself’ after an affair? 8 steps to self-forgiveness What is self-forgiveness? We can hear that terminology thrown around but it can be difficult to know how to really DO it. Most people who realize they need to ‘forgive themselves’ first were stuck in the painful pit of shame. If someone else had wronged you, you’d want…
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Will God forgive my infidelity?
what does the bible say about forgiveness for adultery? Look, I know you’re probably here because you did what you never thought yourself capable of doing- you had an affair, committed adultery, were unfaithful…whatever you want to call it. What matters is the destruction it left in its wake; which came from your own choices. Once someone comes out…
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7 Setbacks In Affair Recovery
The 7 most common Setbacks In Affair Recovery. Honestly, there are a number of ways a couple can derail their affair healing, but these are the most common 7 setbacks in affair recovery. The first few weeks and months after an affair is revealed are the hardest, obviously. If you’re the betrayed husband, you’re likely in shock and looking for…
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5 tips to surviving discovery day of an Affair
‘Discovery Day of an Affair’ is a day you, and your spouse, will likely never forget. “Discovery Day of an affair is usually defined by the day you or your spouse found out about the others affair. Sometimes this occurs by mistake, one spouse finds proof of the other spouse’s affair and confronts them, or they are seen together…
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