8 ideas to help your feelings return for your spouse. Do you ever wonder if those feelings of love, excitement, and passion can ever return for your spouse again? I’m here to tell you, Yes! they definitely can! Plus the paradox of marital restoration after an affair is that your marriage can be even stronger than it was before….
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3 Things to know about feelings after an affair. After an affair, if a couple decides to work on healing their marriage, one of the most misunderstood questions they ask is: “Why don’t I feel a deeper love, or passion, for my spouse now?” This is actually a common question I hear from both the betrayed spouse and the unfaithful…
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Ever wonder how infidelity affects kids? My son’s perspective of my affair; 12 years later. I’ve never had such an easy AND hard post to write. Let me explain. As I shared in my previous post, on the subject about children knowing about their parent’s affair; I never wanted to write a post about it. Heck, it’s hard enough writing…
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5 different scenario’s to help you decide, plus my own personal story. Should the children know you’ve had an affair? “What do I tell them? What will they think of me? Will they ever forgive me?”” These were questions I eventually had to ask myself. Our marriage had deteriorated to the point where it looked inevitable- and my boys needed…
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Because one question people often ask: ‘is it okay to keep my affair partner as a friend?’ Many people try to stay friends with their affair partners, after they’ve broken off the affair. The statement ‘…but we can still be friends’ has probably followed more break-up speeches, than any other in existence. It sounds nice in theory, but is it…
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